Wednesday, November 16, 2011

Interesting Story

Supersize
If u have an empty 64-ounce cup and u pour the water fm a full 24-ounce cup into it, u can't expect it to fill the bigger cup. U accept that that's all the water the 24-ounce cup can hold.All the people in yr life are truly doing their best they can with what they have. People can only love u to the capacity that they r able to love themselves. They can only forgive n embrace u to the capacity that they are able to forgive n embrace themselves. They can only give u what they have the capacity to give.U may think u deserve more. U maybe right. But that means nothing if a person simply doesn't have the ability to give it to u.Hence, each time u expect someone in yr life with "24-ounce capacity" for love, forgiveness or communication to give u "64-ounces that u wanted, u r setting that person up for failure and yrself up for constant disappointment.Live. Love. Accept.
Bed of Nails
One day, a man walked past a house and saw a little old lady rocking in her chair, a little old man reading the paper as he rocked next to her and a dog lying on the porch between the two, moaning as if he were in pain. As he passed, the man wondered silently what the dog was moaning abt.The next day, he walked past the hse again. He saw the old couple rocking in their chairs n the dog lying between them, making the same pained sound. Puzzled the man promised himself that if the dog was still moaning the next day, he'd ask the old couple abt it.On the third day, to his distress, he saw the same scene; the little old lady rocking in her chair, a little old man reading the paper and a dog in his spot, moaning piteously. He couldn't stand it anymore."excuse me, ma'am," he called out to the old woman, " what's wrong with yr dog?""oh, him?" she said, "he's lying on a nail."Confused by her reply, the man asked, "if he's lying on a nail and it hurts. Why doesn't he just get up?"The little old lady smiled and said in a sweet grandmotherly tone, "well, honey, it hurts just enough for him to moan abt it, but not enough for him to move yet."

Interesting Quotes

33) Whether you're an optimist or pessimist, may not affect the outcome. It's just that optimist has a better time in life.

32) Belief with evidence = Facts ; Belief without Evidence = Opinion.

31) Weakness is a strength used inappropriately.

30) Lack of ability to deal with the situation makes one view the other party as a difficult person to deal with.

29) The world ain't all sunshine and rainbows. It is a very mean and nasty place and it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it! You, me, or nobody is gonna hit as hard as life. But it ain't how hard you hit; it's about how hard you can get hit, and keep moving forward. How much you can take, and keep moving forward. if you know what you're worth, then go out and get what you're worth. But you gotta be willing to take the hit!

28) We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then is not an act, but a habit.

27) Never put off until tomorrow what you can do today.

26) Most people are about as happy as they make up their minds to be

25) Law of destiny states that something only happen becauses something else preceded it.

24) Vision without action is a daydream. Action without vision is a nightmare.

23) Our greatest glory is not in never falling but in rising every time we fall.

22) Success is having a fixed WHAT but variable HOWs.

21) Difficult times augment our capacity fir pleasure: it keeps us from taking pleasure for granted, it reminds us to b grateful for all the large n small pleasures in our lives.

20) I don't know the key to success but the key to failure is to try to please everyone.

19) what yr mind can conceive, the mind can achieve!

18) Even if situation doesn't improve, YOU improve!

17) Things do not happen; Things are made to happen.

16) Communication is filtered by how it's perceived.

15) Be who u r n say what u feel because people who mind don't matter and people who matter don't mind.

14) Thousands of candles can be lighted from a single candle, and the life of the candle will not b shortened. Happiness never decrease by being shared.

13) Real difficulties can b overcome; it's the imaginary one that are unconquerable.

12) Most people are happy as they make up their minds to be.

11) Great mind discuss ideas, Average mind discuss events and Small mind discuss people.

10) Real confidence is being comfortable enough with yourself to enter unfamiliar territory and have a go, being able to extend yr confidence from one scenario to another.

9) what lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us.

8) when u decide there us a reason for something not working for u, u have formed a belief. This belief is now part of the problem.. Its of yr own making. A problem can only exists in yr mind. Outside yr mind there r only circumstances. When u apply yourself to circumstances and believe tat u can succeed u r giving yrself the foundation to succeed in everything!

7) if u hear a voice within u say, "u can't do it." then by all means do it! And that voice will b silenced.

6) the mind is like a parachute - it's works best when it's open!

5) Somtimes the things u wan to do may seem insurmountable, not because of the size or difficulty of any particular challenge, but because of the way u r approaching it.

4)The Difference that makes the Difference.

3) A vision is a beacon that is quite clear to you once u see it; a goal is what u set when u cant see the vision.


2) whenever there us a disagreement or conflicts, there is often a value or belief issue involved.

1) what is the pt of being "in the right" if it makes everything goes wrong?